Sunday, 4 January 2015

Five Lies Women tell Men......

Common Lies Women Always Tell Men.

Lie #1: "Oh! It's fine. I'm OK"

Guards on guys! You must know that she's not fine at all and nothing is OK. And sooner or later you will have to bear the burnt of her built up emotions that she has somehow managed to hold back until now. You'll find her taking this emotional defense on occasions when you may have forgotten her birthday, taken her for granted or have done anything that hurts her.



Lie # 2: "I love you for what you are ...and I don't want you to change"

Well, may God be your savior if you believe her for this. No wonders, in pampering or impressing you might strictly be on her mind when she's saying this. But gradually when she starts and reality begins to unfold upon you, then you would realize how much danger is in the air. Men! Just seek for ways to control or change your personality. After all, change is constant.

Lie # 3: You stare at other women and she says I don't care.


You need to start praying or better still add fasting to it because thunder will soon strike.
Either you are too lucky to have the coolest woman by your side, or you are just flexing your ignorance without any reason if you believe her on this. No matter how hard she tries to look cool and composed, the fact remains that no woman loves it when her man looks at another woman even for a second. In doing so, it makes her feel like she is second best. Trust me, no one wants to feel that way and certainly not your woman. Note: The 'I don't care attitude' is usually to hide her vulnerability and its also a pretense.

Lie # 4:  when she tells you that your friends are cool.
This might not be a lie always, but many a times your friends are nothing but a 'passion spoiler' for your girl, especially when they pop up during private moments. "When we started dating, on many occasions we went out with my friends. And every time I used to ask her, 'I hope you are enjoying?' she answered, 'They're cool!' The real shock came when one day I was planning another group date and she gave me a good piece of her mind. It's then that I realized that she didn't love them as much I thought she did. Most times, women end up praising your friends for you because they don't want to hurt you by revealing the truth.


Lie # 5: when you have done something Bad and she says: "Tell me, trust me I won't get angry"

I would advice you have the keys to your safe room at hand. This one is tricky, leaving you with a little or no trouble on one side and a bigger problem on the other. This lie is usually thrown at you when she wants an honest opinion and knows what it can be, but still wants to hear it. Beware guys! Irrespective of what you say, she is going to get furious for sure. This usually happens in questions related to her looks, the food that she cooks, that tangy orange shirt she brought for you etc